There are a lot of meanings regarding friendship. They say that they are your worst enemy as they know everything about you, and some say they are your reincarnated brothers and sisters. But how would you really know that this certain person is a friend or not? Simple, it is because a friend never forgets you in a paddle of trust and certainty. It’s when in years you have not made time, been separated by distance, have inevitably grown apart, and yet when you get to meet today, it feels like you’ve just last talked yesterday.
In a friendship a wasted moment can make you regret so bad, a single mistake can change your whole life from then you’ll see how the little things you ignore meant everything when they’re gone. If this very important thing would be gone for something imperceptible, then this would be the worst verdict you can come up regarding friendship. It’s like a dog. A dog would be the very best example for this. If you don’t correct them when they upset you, they will never learn how to treat you right. It’s like avoiding on something amiable, but remember in the span of life, avoiding something doesn’t mean that you hate it. It could also mean that you want it but you’re just unsure if that isn’t right.
If people say something bad about you, and judge you as if they know you, don’t get affected, just remember that “a dog won’t bark if it knows the person” and besides most of what’s being said about you by other people doesn’t really say of who you are, it says more about who they are. But honestly, whenever a person says something behind our back we find ourselves feeling incomplete and disturb our emotions. It just feels like, someone had stubbed us in our back without knowing it. But who cares? Those people aren’t really your friends. They are what you call “Fucking bullshit”. They are existing as it is what you call the survival of the fittest, that if you’re not like that, then in this world, you’re nothing. Remember this: “life is but an unending cycle of drudgery and toil, a ceaseless struggle for survival for the elemental right to just exist instead of truly living. Want is constant companion. Oppression is always close by. As for those interests intended to enhance the joy of living- these are total strangers. One cannot enjoy the sunset when he must worry about the oil to light the lamp when the darkness closes in”. It is what you called “Practicality.”
Practicality is not always bad, to the people bad to you and put you down. Just use it to the right person. But what more exceptional is the things who give the true value of your personality and attitude. Being true to yourself is like making fairytale in reality. It’s not like about accepting the real you, it’s about accepting you from who you’re not. And it’s about staying if you’re happy, and leave if you are not. It’s like, if it happens, it damn happens. If it wasn’t meant, it certainly doesn’t. Don’t push through, just let go. And dare not to mock yourself chasing and caressing for someone who didn’t even care to understand you. Guys I know it sucks, isn’t it? But you know what; it sucks a lot if you don’t give up. Love, value and care for yourself. It is because if you won’t, nobody would. Just be patient, as we know that these troubles produce patience and patience produces character. This make sense right? It’s like count the garden by the flowers never by the leaves that fall, and count your life with smile and not with the tears that roll and just count the blessings not the failure.
I, for one have a lot of failures in life. And every single one of them is tremendously hard to solve. Sometimes I even cry and just keep in silence for a moment. My friends are always asking on the things that I’m thinking. They want to help but they can’t do anything. Sometimes I’m thinking, if only there’s this magical genie that could help me out and have 3 wishes, I would wish for money, knowledge, and good future. Then my life is perfect. But it’s pretty impossible, because there’s no such thing. Until now, I would encounter new problem, and I admit it, it is my fault actually. They said that there are 3 things that person would encounter in his life, and it is permanent. First is life, the other one is death and the last one would be Problem. It’s pretty sad, but people must face it. Face the reality that these things really happen in our life. Just focus on the good times than the bad, just give more emphasis on the problem that shape and mold you than the things that put you down. Just remember that the hardships that you might be facing right now are just half of the amount of the happiness that you will experience in return. Righteousness in life is in the value of one’s self if you pursue the things which are truly precise, what I mean to say is that, a wrong thing is wrong even if everyone else is doing it; a right thing is right even if you’re the only person doing it. Don’t let other people affect your decision in life; it is always up to you on how you’re going to run your life. Run it for good, or ruin it that bad, Yes…people will care and try to shift you back to the right track, but always remember, at the end of the day, it’s always your choice that matters. It’s a matter of choosing what you love, then love your choice. And thus, it is your choice and destiny has nothing to do with it.
Someday, you’ll be alone and they’ll be gone, if that day would come, try to consider yourself lucky. Lucky in the sense that someone considers you as part of their lives, because not everyone has the opportunity to be loved as much, even if you are not at your best. Just continue the journey of being a channel of inspiration to every people. Because life is not a coincidence, it is an echo of what you invest. Everyone is a part of someone’s life, like a part of puzzle, that without doing your part it will create a gap or missing part. Remember this, “Every king was once a crying baby and every great building was once a picture. It is not about where you are today; it’s about where you will be tomorrow.”
I hope that this would be an inspiration to everyone. This might seem confusing, but if you’re a person who appreciates the true value of literature and art, you will know the real point of this.
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